Recommended Book List

ADHD
  • ADHD is My Super Power- Alana Moore (5-8)
  • All Dogs Have ADHD- Kathy Hoopmann (7-11)
  • Are You Working Hard or Hardly Working?: A Story about Staying on Task Until the Work Is Done
  • It Was Just Right Here! (Executive FUNction)
  • Fix It with Focus: A Story about Ignoring Distractions and Staying on Task (Executive Function)
  • I'll Never Get All of That Done!: A Story about Planning and Prioritizing (Executive Function)
  • How Do I Remember All That?: A Story to Improve Working Memory (Executive Function)
  • What's the Problem?: A Story Teaching Problem Solving (Executive Function)
  • What's Your Choice?: A Story about Making the Best Choice, Even When It's Not Fun (Stepping Up Social Skills)

For Parents:

  • Lost at School- Ross Greene
  • The Explosive Child- Ross Greene
  • Your Kid’s Gonna Be Okay: Building the Executive Function Skills Your Child Needs in the Age of Attention- Michael Delman
Anxiety
  • Ruby Finds a Worry - Tom Percival (3-8)
  • Don't Feed The Worry Bug - Andi Green (4-8)
  • What to To When You Worry Too Much - Dawn Huebner (6-12)
  • The Anxiety Workbook for Teens - Lisa M. Schab (13+)
  • Perfectionism: What’s Bad About Being Too Good?- Miriam Adderholdt (12+)
  • Facing Mighty Fears About Animals
  • Facing Mighty Fears About Health
  • Facing Mighty Fears About Throwing Up
  • Facing Mighty Fears About Trying New Things
  • What To Do When Your Brain Gets Stuck: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming OCD
  • What To Do When You Dread Your Bed: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Problems with Sleep
  • What To Do When Bad Habits Take Hold: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Nail Biting and More
  • Outsmarting Worry: An Older Kid’s Guide to Managing Anxiety
  • Sometimes I Worry Too Much, But Now I Know How to Stop

For Parents:

  • Anxious Kids Anxious Parents- 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children- Reid Wilson and Lynn Lyons
  • Calming Your Anxious Child: Words to Say and Things to Do- Kathleen Trainor
Autism Spectrum Disorders
  • The Asperkid's Secret Book of Social Rules- The Handbook of Not-So-Obvious Social Guidelines for Tweens & Teens with Asperger Syndrome- Jennifer Cook O'Toole

For Parents:

  • The Autism Mom's Survival Guide- Susan Senator
  • Making Peace With Autism- Susan Senator
  • Uniquely Human: A Different Way of Seeing Autism- Barry M. Prizant
  • Asperger Syndrome and Adolescence: Helping Preteens and Teens Get Ready for the Real World- Teresa Bolick
Behavior Management

For Parents:

  • How To Talk So Little Kids Will Listen- Joanna Faber and Julie King
  • How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk- Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
  • How To Talk So Teens Will Listen & Listen So Teens Will Talk- Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
  • No Drama Discipline: The Whole Brain Way To Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind- Daniel J. Siegel
  • Your Kid’s Gonna Be Okay: Building the Executive Function Skills Your Child Needs in the Age of Attention- Michael Delman
  • The 7 Essential Strategies For Parenting Teens- Kate Anderson and Liz Carrington
  • Negotiation Generation: Take Back Your Parental Authority Without Punishment- Lynne Griffin
  • What To Do When Your Temper Flares: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Problems with Anger
  • What To Do When You Grumble Too Much: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Negativity
Body Image & Self-Esteem
  • Bodies are Cool- Tyler Feder (3-5)
  • The Body Image Workbook for Teens- Julia V. Taylor (teen)
  • Health at Every Size - Linda Bacon (teen)
  • Body Respect – Linda Bacon (teen)
  • The Body is Not an Apology- Sonya Renee Taylor (older teen)
  • Strong Is The New Pretty: A Celebration of Girls Being Themselves- Kate T. Parker
  • The Heart of a Boy: Celebrating the Strength and Spirit of Boyhood- Kate T. Parker

For Parents:

  • Fat Talk: Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture- Virginia Sole-Smith
Depression
  • My Feeling Better Workbook- Sarah Hamil (6-12)
  • Beyond the Blues: A Workbook to Help Teens Overcome Depression- Lisa M. Schab (13+)
Diversity and Anti-Racism
  • All Are Welcome- Alexandra Penfold (2-7)
  • Lovely- Jess Hong (2-7)
  • We're Different, We're the Same- Bobbi Kates (2-7)
  • The Day You Begin - Jacqueline Woodson (5-8)
  • Where Are You From- Yamile Saied Mendez (4-8)
  • Alma- Juana Martinez-Neal (4-8)
  • Stamped for Kids- Sonja Cherry-Paul (8-12)
  • Stamped: Racism, Antiracism, and You – Jason Reynolds and Ibram X. Kendi (12+)
Divorce and Remarriage
  • Was It the Chocolate Pudding?- Sandra Levins (younger children)
  • It’s Not Your Fault, Koko Bear- Vicki Lansky (younger children)
  • Divorce is the Worst- Anastasia Higginbotham (younger children)
  • Divorce: The Ultimate Teen Guide- Kathlyn Gay
  • Do You Sing Twinkle? - Sandra Levins (younger children)
  • The Invisible String- Patrice Karst (younger children)
  • Bigger Than a Bread Box- Laurel Snyder (8-12)
  • The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants- Ann Brashares (12+)
Emotion Regulation
  • A Little Spot of Emotion Series - Diane Alber (3-7)
  • In My Heart: A Book of Feelings - Jo Witek (3-7)
  • The Way I Feel - Janan Cain (3-7)
  • I Am Peace: A Book of Mindfulness - Susan Verde (3-8)
  • The Very Frustrated Monster - Andi Green (4-8)
  • What Should Danny Do? The Power to Choose Series- Adir Levy (4+)
  • What Should Darla Do? The Power to Choose Series- Adir Levy (4+)
  • Hands are Not For Hitting- Martine Agassi (board book ages 1-4, paperback ages 4-7)
  • Of Course It's a Big Deal!: A Story about Learning to React Calmly and Appropriately - Bryan Smith (6-11)
  • What Were You Thinking?: A Story about Learning to Control Your Impulses - Bryan Smith (6-11)
  • My Day is Ruined!: A Story for Teaching Flexible Thinking - Bryan Smith (6-11)

For Parents:

  • Good Inside with Dr. Becky - Dr. Becky Kennedy
  • The Whole Brain Child- Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson
Family Diversity
  • The Family Book -Todd Parr (3-6)
  • And Tango Makes Three - Justin Richardson (4-8)
  • Asha’s Mums - Rosamund Elwin (9-12)
  • Maybe Days: A Book for Children in Foster Care- Jennifer Wilgocki and Marcia Kahn Wright
Friendship
  • A Smart Girl's Guide to Knowing What to Say: Finding the Words to Fit Any Situation (8-12)
  • Friends: Making Them and Keeping Them (8-12)
  • A Smart Girl's Guide: Friendship Troubles: Dealing with fights, being left out, and the whole popularity thing (8-12)
  • A Smart Girl's Guide: Drama, Rumors, and Secrets: Staying true to yourself in changing times (8-12)
Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation
  • 10,000 Dresses- Marcus Ewert (5-9)
  • Elena’s Serenade- Campbell Geeslin (3-7)
  • George- Alex Gino (8-12)
  • More Happy Than Not- Adam Silvera (13+)
  • Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe- Benjamin Alire Saenz (12+)
  • Blanca & Roja- Anna-Marie McLemore (YA)
  • Felix Ever After- Kacen Callender (YA)
  • The Grief Keeper- Alexandra Villasante (YA)
  • The Stars and the Blackness Between Them- Junauda Petrus (YA)
  • When the Moon Was Ours- Anna-Marie McLemore (YA)
  • The Other Side of Paradise: A Memoir- Staceyann Chin (YA)

For Parents:

  • Parenting Your LGBTQ+ Teen- A Guide to Supporting, Empowering, and Connecting With Your Child- Allan Sadac
Grief and Loss
  • Here in the Garden- Briony Stewart (young children)
  • The Invisible String- Patrice Karst (young children)
  • The Dead Bird- Margaret Wise Brown (young children)
  • I Miss You- Pat Thomas (4+)
  • Always Remember- Cece Meng (3-7)
  • When Dinosaurs Die- Laurie Kransy Brown (4-8)
  • The Tenth Good Thing About Barney- Judith Viorst (6-9)
  • Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss- Pat Schwiebert (8+)
  • When Someone Very Special Dies- Marge Heegard (workbook for ages 9-12)

Specifically for processing pregnancy and infant loss:

  • Something Happened- Cathy Blanford
  • My Sibling Still - Megan Lacourrege
  • Our Heaven Baby- Leah Vis
  • We Were Gonna Have a Baby, But We Had an Angel Instead- Pat Schwiebert
  • Someone Came Before You (for children born after the loss)- Pat Schwiebert
New School
  • Llama Llama Misses Mama- Anna Dewdney (young children)
  • Bob and Flo- Rebecca Ashdown (young children)
  • Timothy Goes to School- Rosemary Wells (young children)
  • The Truth About Twinkie Pie- Kat Yeh (8-12)
  • New Kid, New Scene: A Guide to Moving and Switching Schools- Debbie Glasser (8+)
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
  • What To Do When Your Brain Gets Stuck: A Kid's Guide To Overcoming OCD - Dawn Huebner (6-12)
  • The OCD Workbook For Teens - Jon Hershfield (13-18)
Puberty

Girls

  • The Care and Keeping of You- Valorie Lee Schaefer (8+)
  • Celebrate Your Body (And Its Changes, Too)!- Sonya Renee Taylor (8+)
  • Celebrate Your Feelings: The Positive Mindset Puberty Book- Lauren Rivers (8+)
  • The Period Book- Karen Gravelle (9+)

Boys

  • Guy Stuff- The Body Book for Boys- Cara Natterson (10+)
  • What’s Happening to My Body- Lynda Madaras (12-15)
Safety
  • Your Body Belongs to You - Cornelia Maude Spelman (3-8)
  • I Said No: A Kid to Kid Guide to Keeping Private Parts Private- Zack and Kimberly King (5-11)
  • Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young Kids (6-11)
  • A Smart Girl's Guide: Digital World: How to Connect, Share, Play, and Keep Yourself Safe - Carrie Anton (8-12)
Sensory Processing

For Parents:

  • The Out of Sync Child: Recognizing and Coping With Sensory Processing Disorder- Carol Kranowitz
Sex
  • What’s the Big Secret? - Laurie Kransny Brown (4+)
  • It’s Perfectly Normal -Robie H. Harris (10+)
  • Sex, Puberty, and All That Stuff -Jacqui Bailey (11-16)
Sibling Relationships
  • Olivia- A Guide to Being a Big Sister- Natalie Shaw (younger children)
  • Henry is a Big Brother- Alyssa Statin Capucilli (younger children)
  • Peter’s Chair- Ezra Jack Keats (younger children)
  • 101 Things to Do With Baby- Jan Ormerod (younger children)
  • The Sibling Survival Guide: Surefire Ways to Solve Conflicts, Reduce Rivalry, and Have More Fun With Brothers and Sisters
Substance Use

For Parents:

  • The Addicted Child: A Parent's Guide to Adolescent Substance Abuse -Richard Capriola
Trauma
  • A Terrible Thing Happened- Margaret M. Holmes (4-7)
  • Healing Days: A Guide for Kids Who Have Experienced Trauma- Susan Farber Straus and Maria Bogade (6-11)
  • Something Bad Happened: A Kid’s Guide to Learning About Events in the News

For Parents:

  • What Happened to You? Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing- Bruce D. Perry and Oprah Winfrey
  • The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma- Bessel Van Der Kolk